By Harun Yahya
Our blessed prophet, Prophet Mohammed (saas), who is shipped by God as a savior to entire humanity, is probably the most stunning instance along with his profound religion, knowledge, good morality, the Aristocracy and decency.
Our beloved Prophet (saas) used to humor individuals with nice compliments and affection; he valued everybody’s concepts and assumed a conciliating and lenient perspective. He warned everybody round him to keep away from harsh and offending phrases and verbalized the gorgeous facets of the particular person he talked to. He was probably the most stunning mannered of all individuals. In a verse of the Qur’an, our Lord mentions the superior morality of our Prophet (saas), the function mannequin for all of the Islamic World, as follows:
“You should have a wage which by no means fails. Certainly you’re actually huge in character.” (Surat Al-Qalam; 3-4)
With the worth he hooked up to ladies, with the respect, love, compassion and mercy he felt in direction of ladies, our Prophet (saas) additionally guided the entire Islamic World.
As a matter of reality, the origins of the standpoint that despises and humiliates ladies and that considers them as second class are based mostly upon the time earlier than Islam, the time of ignorance. In historic Arabic societies, when the members of the family got the glad tidings of a woman their faces fell; furthermore they even buried their daughters alive. Moreover, there had been occasions during which ladies have been bought and purchased like a chunk of furnishings. Nevertheless, by the use of Islam and our Prophet (saas) that’s the mild of Islam, ladies whom God in comparison with a flower within the Qur’an loved an exalted standing. By defining ladies as “treasures entrusted to us by God” our Prophet (saas) held ladies in excessive esteem and constructed a system during which ladies loved the utmost freedom. Within the system our Prophet (saas) constructed, ladies didn’t really feel any form of concern or fear in society and weren’t solely charged with chores like cleansing, cooking, ironing and doing the laundry however have been extremely appreciated and valued.
Our Prophet (saas) confirmed shut consideration to his personal spouses. He confirmed final consideration to strengthen their religion, to make higher their well being, their pleasure and data. Within the accounts it’s said that he even performed video games with them and ran footraces to entertain them. Companions emphasised the love he confirmed to his spouses by saying “Our Prophet (saas) was the one who joked along with his spouses probably the most.”(1) In accordance with an account associated by Hazrat Aisha (ra) “He was probably the most lenient, most beneficiant, most pleasant and most smiling one in all all individuals in direction of his spouses.” (2)
The sort and delightful manners of our Prophet (saas) in direction of ladies ought to definitely be a task mannequin for the entire Islamic World. Muslims must be in a race with one another in displaying love, respect and kindness in direction of ladies, in saying nice phrases and in displaying stunning manners in direction of them.
As said within the hadiths loving ladies, is part of the traits of Prophets. (3) Our Prophet (saas) stated; “I don’t suppose that an individual’s religion would improve until his love for ladies will increase.” (4) Which means an individual would love and worth ladies within the extent of his religion.
A Muslim must be a really strict observant of those stunning examples displayed by the Messenger of God. For the great pleasure of God, Muslims are answerable for displaying the identical love, respect and compassion in direction of ladies.
God likens ladies to flowers within the Qur’an and He informs us that superiority is just not in gender however within the concern of God, in religion and good morality, in sincerity and piety:
“Her Lord accepted her with approval and made her develop in well being and sweetness. And Zakariyya grew to become her guardian. Each time Zakariyya visited her within the Higher Room, he discovered meals along with her. He stated, ´Maryam, how did you come by this?´ She stated, ´It’s from God. God supplies for whoever He wills with none reckoning’.” (Surah Al-Imran;37)
In accordance with the Qur’an ladies are light, outstanding flowers that must be handled very rigorously however they’re additionally given superior government positions. Our Prophet (saas) at all times instructed his ummah that the tasks of Muslim males and Muslim ladies are the identical. That’s the reason God doesn’t make any differentiation between women and men within the Qur’an and addresses Muslims as “women and men who’re Muslims”:
“Women and men who’re Muslims, women and men who’re believers, women and men who’re obedient, women and men who’re truthful, women and men who’re steadfast, women and men who’re humble, women and men who give sadaqa, women and men who quick, women and men who guard their personal components, women and men who keep in mind God a lot: God has ready forgiveness for them and an immense reward.” (Surat Al-Ahzab; 35)
Sadly, a twisted standpoint relating to ladies nonetheless persists in our days. Ladies are oppressed, appeared down upon, humiliated all world wide and lots of of them are subjected to violence, oppression and sick therapy. Nevertheless if a rustic doesn’t worth ladies and reward them, if they don’t continually make a degree of the superior traits of girls, it will not be attainable for it to succeed in the extent of superior civilization. Societies during which ladies are despised and considered inferior to males, societies during which ladies are silenced, crushed and compelled to take a backseat in society are condemned to stay as backward societies. All through historical past, different societies have by no means hooked up any significance to a society that regards ladies as nugatory.
It’s essential for ladies to take pleasure in a superior place within the society. They need to have not less than as a lot, in reality much more, rights than males. The mentality that considers ladies solely as sexual objects and the false perception within the superiority of males must be achieved away with. That’s as a result of ladies are very sharp-minded beings. They’re far superior than males in seeing the sophisticated facets of incidents and in recognizing the main points. Consulting them and following their opinions would result in abundance and many as a result of they’re clever and tactful. Moreover ladies are superior to males in compassion, in mercy, in cleanliness and scrupulousness. They’re very useful, first rate, variety, stunning beings because the ornaments of this world.
Nevertheless male dominance can brazenly be seen even in probably the most developed international locations. Merely mentioning the equality of women and men wouldn’t be enough to comb away that twisted mentality. An effort must be made to advertise the idea within the superiority of girls. The truth is establishing the prevalence of girls is a blessing and a magnificence. Simply as appreciating the worth of motherhood, ladies must be positioned in such a useful place in all facets of life. The truth that ladies are bodily not as robust compared to males by their nature mustn’t imply that they need to be much less appreciated than males in society; quite the opposite, it implies that they need to be extra favored, that they shouldn’t be given heavy burdens; briefly, it implies that they need to be valued and proven final consideration.
These superior traits of girls ought to often be emphasised and delivered to the forefront with the intention to turn out to be a civilized society. Conducting instructional and informative particular campaigns by governments on this respect could be very fruitful. Ladies must be favored in workplaces and in nationwide assemblies: Not less than half of nationwide assemblies ought to consist of girls. Muslims ought to adorn themselves with the ethical values of our Prophet (saas) and be a task mannequin for the world.
We must always not overlook that happiness is just not attainable to achieve in a misogynistic system during which democracy doesn’t exist and one during which ladies are oppressed and usually are not in a position to reside comfortably. The Islamic World will be unable to seek out reduction in the event that they behave far faraway from the ethical values of the Qur’an relating to their perspective in direction of ladies; that’s as a result of half of the servants of God are ladies and an ethical outlook that oppresses ladies would summon the Wrath of God. That’s the reason this shameful shame, that’s, the standpoint that appears down on ladies, must be corrected and the rights of girls must be made paramount. Male intervention upon ladies must be eliminated by giving them an utmost freedom by displaying them respect and by holding them in excessive esteem. A society may solely turn out to be lofty within the extent of the worth they connect to ladies and acquire respect to the extent that they respect ladies.
(1) Associated in Musnad of Hasan B. Sufyan; Huccatu’l Islam Imam Al-Ghazali, Ihya’u Ulum’id-deen, Vol. 2, Translation: Dr. Sıtkı Gülle, Huzur Publishing, Istanbul 1998, p.105
(2) G.Ahmed Ziyauddeen, Ramuz Al-Hadith, Vol. 2, Gonca Publishing, Istanbul, 1997, 531/7
(3) Kulaynî, Qâfî, v. 5, p. 320, hadith no: 1) (Sheikh Tusi, Tehzîbu’l-Ahqâm (Tahran, 1365), v. 7, p. 403)(Majlisi, Bihâru’l-anwar, v.101, p. 75) (Tabersî, Mekârimu’l-ahlâk, p. 197) (Amilî, Vesâilü’s-shia, v. 20, p. 22 (Hadith no: 24923
(4) Kulaynî, Qâfî, v. 5, p. 320, hadith no: 2) (Ibn Bâbaveyh, Males lâ yehzuruhu’l-faqîh, v. 3, p. 384
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